Friday, July 30, 2010

ADVICE FOR ALL

Posted by Stacy Heart at 7/30/2010 06:28:00 AM

OK, I'm over my hissy fit... LOL


I told Mum about our situation with Vicky, and she gave me some really good advice... And we should all think about it as well...

Now, trust me, I'm not on her side, I still am very annoyed about the rumors and lies she has spread about us... Never the less, some things we have done have actually made the situation worse. Like some of the things we commented on her blog. Not all the things, just some. Also, no offense and I totally understand why she did it. But when Selina grabbed Vicky's arm and told her to go to hell or whatever it gave her something to use against us.

But the advice my Mum gave me was to ignore her. If she talks to us, say " we don't want to talk to you". If she sits with us, say "we don't want to sit with you" and if she looks at us, just ignore her.

Also if someone ask about the rumor or something Vicky has said about us. Just say "it's not true, we didn't say those things" and walk away... BUT WE NEED TO BE POLITE!! CAUSE IF WE ARE POLITE, SHE HAS NO REASON TO BE A BITCH!

Mum agrees with the fact that she is doing it for the attention, and that if we were to tell a teacher, they would take her side over ours because she is 'so innocent. Unless we show evidence, but I'm pretty sure we don't want to sit around for an hour and talk about 'feelings'...
She said we just can't give into her little game any more. Because what she is manipulating and trying to control use by spreading rumors and lies about us, so that we get into trouble and not her.

I'm not trying to say that we HAVE to ignore her ALL THE TIME. Because we are in her classes, so that is hard. I'm just passing on advice so that we don't get into MORE trouble. Because she has told us to leave her alone several times, and apparently we are the ones who are continuing this on.

Also if we want her to leave and sit somewhere else, then we should just ask her politely and say "because we don't want our fight to interrupt with our school work". That way we aren't forcing her, and we have a good and sincere reason.

And remember NO THREATENING, NO SWEARING AT HER, NO GRABBING OR HURTING OR ANY SORT OF BULLYING!!!!! BECAUSE WE WILL GET IN TROUBLE!

P.S If I was found out to have ANY thing to do with bullying, I would probably lose my scholarship, so, I've decided to leave her alone, so you can too.

P.P.S if she then continues THEN we might tell someone

P.P.P.S and I don't really want to sit around with teacher and talk about feeling for and hour

P.P.P.P.S BUT, if we stop, then she has no reason to, because she can't manipulate us and try to control us.

 

1 comments:

Macille said...

Haha loll, um.. well that part wasn't selina's fault. Selina just asked her to explain what she wrote on her blog and she told us that we should just go to hell and die. so no, it wasn't selina who grabbed her arm and told her to go to hell - that never happened, cuz if it did then it would've caused a big scene in sose.

Oh and okkk, I was actually getting over this thing and it was making my bloggg depressing XD

August 1, 2010 at 8:39 AM  

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